Have you ever felt that you are between the sword and the wall? That is what happens to us when our mind crosses with our feelings. I know thst this has happens to the most of us, at least one time. Let's see three situations in where this conflict is present: in friendship, when we start a relation and when we meet ourselves.
First, let's analyze when our mind crosses with ours feelings in the moment to have a friendship. In occasions when a friend offend us, it makes us hard to forgive them. Then, when we decide to forgive him our mind gets cross with ours feelings and it begins to ask us; why are we forgiving if he has failed us? It starts to tell us that we have sacrificed to much, and that we have give more for that friendship that our friend. You know why people do that? The reason is very easy;he always says something of ours actions. Easily we can consider our mind like the enemy of ours feelings.
Now let,s analyze when our mind crosses our feelings, but this time when we start a relation. In most occasions when we start a relation we have fear to express ours feelings because of not being love back. That happens to us when our mind does not let us be ourselves, it makes us act in a proud way and in occasions insensible, too. Let's analyze now the third way that our mind cross our feelings.
We all know that our mind gets cross with ours feelings at the time of meeting ourselves. Many times when we try to understand us better and change the negatives attitudes thet we have, the mind make us believe that don't have nothing to change, it tells us that we are in the right and that we don't have to change our way to being.
Thus, we need to have clear at all moments that our minds cross the ideas with ours feelings. That one can influence in the moment to have a friendship, when we start a relation, and when we meet us ourselves. It is us that have to decide in what grade our mind is going to influence in ours feelings and worse, in our lives.
Outline
Title: When Our Mind Cross Our Feelings
Thesis: Have you been between the sword and the wall in a sentimental desition?
Friends
tradition
trust
love (a friend one)
proud
a way to be cool when we need it.
2- Couple
fear
love (a sensual one)
proud
insensible
feelings
future
happiness
3- Ourselves
meet us ourselves
negatives attitudes
positives attitudes
auto evaluation
Conclusion: We can't let the mind have total control of ours feelings.